Shame and Affect Theory (Nathanson)

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Welcome to the BOL Forum on Shame and Affect Theory by John Grohol, 2/10/96
- A Family of Emotions and a Family of Psychotherapists by Don Nathanson, 1/2/96
  - Don's Theory of ADD/ADHD and Shame by Jennifer Morley, 4/16/96
    - Responses to Shame by Jim Pfrommer, 4/16/96
      - Treatment of ADD by Jennifer Morley, 4/17/96
        
        hyperactivity as shame by donald klein, 7/1/96
        
        Good Question by Gil Levin, 7/1/96
        Klein's definition of shame? by Don Nathanson, 7/2/96
        Movement Disorder? by Fiona Geiser, 7/3/96
        Dr. Klein--Please Study Affect Theory by Vick Kelly, 7/4/96
        response to aad/adhd and shame by mike fabiani, 10/27/98
        
        Primary and secondary sources of shame affect by Don Nathanson, 10/31/98
        
        response to add/adhd and shame by mike fabiani, 10/27/98
      - Bipolar Disease Related to Shame? by Kris Evans, 7/26/96
        
        Bipolar Affective Illness and Shame by Don Nathanson, 7/26/96
        
        Bipolar Illness and Capacity for Intimacy by Vick Kelly, 8/4/96
        
        Good Readings on Affect Theory by Jan Halper, Ph.D., 8/27/97
        
        1 reply
        
        I Want MY LIFE BACK...! by Greg Alexander, 10/6/98
        
        1 reply
        
        Bipolar I Cure Rate? by Anna Kay, 1/10/99
        
        1 reply
        
        Yes of course shame is integral with BiPolar by Karen, 10/2/97
        
        Can you share more with us? by Don Nathanson, 10/3/97
        
        Thank you for the quick Bipolar reply! by Kris Evans, 7/28/96
        
        Affective learning after pharmacotherapy by Don Nathanson, 7/28/96
        
        Hypnosis and Mood Disorders by Peter B. Bloom, 8/3/96
        new script creation what is it? to Nathanson by ginni...fan of Nathanson, 7/11/98
        
        1 reply
      - SSRI'S AND DOWNMODULATION OF SHAME by JOHN HASSLER, 4/14/97
        
        Downregulation of shame affect by Don Nathanson, 4/17/97
        
        (No title) by John Hassler, 4/18/97
        Adaptive value of shame mechanism? by Dori LeCroy, 1/23/98
        
        Adaptive value of an affect by Don Nathanson, 1/24/98
        
        1 reply
      - ADD shame by R. N. SMITH, 4/23/98
        
        others like you by christina l. remien, 4/24/98
        
        others like you by stacey, 6/1/98
        
        Some Make It, Some Don't by Greg Alexander, 10/6/98
      - Responses to public humiliation by Lia Ades, 12/8/98
        
        Life as interacting matrices rather than billiard balls by Don Nathanson, 12/13/98
        
        Shame links identity and social interaction by Lia Ades, 1/21/99
    - Any problem with attention is a problem with affect! by Don Nathanson, 4/16/96
      - Wondering why ? by Michèle Paquette, 4/17/96
        
        Amplified to Attention by Jim Pfrommer, 4/18/96
        
        Thank you by Michèle Paquette, 4/18/96
        
        Who's upset by Jim Pfrommer, 4/18/96
        
        A difficult issueAndy Morrison by Michèle Paquette, 4/18/96
        
        New theories upset old certainties by Don Nathanson, 4/18/96
        
        2 replies
        
        Apparently a clean win by Don Nathanson, 6/6/96
        
        2 replies
        
        Why? by Amanda, 9/27/97
        
        For example? by Don Nathanson, 9/28/97
      - Affects and Neuroimaging by Jim Pfrommer, 4/21/96
        
        Mood Neuroimaging Study by Fiona Geiser, 4/23/96
    - Response to J. Morley's comments RE: Don's Theory of ADD/ADHD by Gordon Shannon, 1/23/98
      - Primary and secondary shame by Don Nathanson, 1/24/98
        
        re Don's response:Primary and secondary by Gordon Shannon, 7/13/98
        
        Primary and secondary manifestations of ADD by Don Nathanson, 7/19/98
        
        Secondary as trigger for primary by (No author), 9/22/98
        
        1 reply
- We've been busy building the Case Conference by Don Nathanson, 6/22/96
  - Looking forward to case conference by Peter B. Bloom, M.D., 6/22/96
  - The Case of Otto Freund has begun! by Gil Levin, 6/26/96
- Shame, guilt. by coronet@ksu.ksu.edu, 8/8/96
  - The concept of innate affect by Don Nathanson, 8/9/96
Impediment by Margaret Blakely, 3/11/96
- analogic amplification by Don Nathanson, 3/12/96
  - Analogic amplification by Margaret, 3/12/96
    - each affect amplifies its own way by Don Nathanson, 3/13/96
Introducing Shame Language to Clients by Brett Schur - Havertown, PA - bschur@msn.com, 3/12/96
- idiosyncratic affect labels by Don Nathanson, 3/13/96
  - Shame: A Family of Emotions by Vick Kelly, 3/13/96
    - Nakedness and Shame by Jan Braswell, 1/15/97
      - exposure by Don Nathanson, 1/15/97
        
        Thanks so much by Jan Braswell, 1/16/97
        SITUATIONAL SHAME by Phil Feldman, PhD, 3/3/98
        
        clear situations generate heathly shame by Cameron fritsch ,student, 8/25/98
  - Crisis by BLynch, 3/4/98
- furthermore, by Don Nathanson, 3/17/96
- A heuristic comment by blynch, 3/20/98
  - Why we call them positive and negative affects by Don Nathanson, 3/20/98
    - (No title) by Rclymer@erols.com, 6/9/98
      - analogues of affect by Don Nathanson, 6/11/98
    - Positive and Negative: a Rose by Any Other Name by Charles G. Yopst, 6/16/98
      - affect vs. script by Don Nathanson, 6/19/98
        
        Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall by Charles G. Yopst, 6/22/98
        Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall by Charles G. Yopst, 6/22/98
        
        Where affect fits in psychotherapy by Don Nathanson, 6/25/98
        
        Thank You: To Strike a Pose by Chuck Yopst, 6/25/98
        
        Shame necessary for negative affect? by (No author), 9/22/98
        
        The independence of affective reactions by Don Nathanson, 9/23/98
        The independence of affective reactions by Don Nathanson, 9/23/98
Fathers & Affect by Brett Schur, Havertown, PA - bschur@msn.com, 3/27/96
- Fathers and Affect by Margaret Blakely, 3/28/96
- Re: Fathers and Affect by Philip Cremer, 4/14/96
Hello by Mary B., 4/29/96
- Welcome by Don Nathanson, 4/29/96
  - shame and interpersonal violence by Mary B., 5/3/96
- Shame and Domestic Violence by Andrew Stone, 6/6/96
  - Domestic Violence and Shame by Taira St. John, M.F.C.C., 12/20/97
Tompkins' works by Mary B., 5/5/96
- Affect Imagery Consciousness by Don Nathanson, 5/6/96
- correction by Don Nathanson, 5/6/96
Therapeutic Interventions with Shame by Ed Schmookler, PhD., 5/6/96
- What to do with shame by Jim Pfrommer, 5/7/96
  - Somatization and Avoidance by B.B., 12/31/96
    - somatization by Don Nathanson, 1/2/97
- Sophisticated question by Don Nathanson, 5/7/96
  - Therapeutic Intereventions with Shame, Experienced by Ed Schmookler, PhD., 5/8/96
    - The good part of shame by Don Nathanson, 5/9/96
    - Bravo, Ed Schmookler! by Steven H. Shmurak, Ph.D., 10/15/97
shame & interpersonal violence again by Mary B., 5/10/96
- Cut off Postings by Jim Pfrommer, 5/11/96
  - Cut Off Postings by Gil Levin, 5/11/96
    - Netscape by Jim Pfrommer, 5/14/96
      - Netscape Back Button by Gil Levin, 5/15/96
        
        Navigational Tips by Jim Pfrommer, 5/17/96
Mania by Margaret Blakely, 5/11/96
- The Affect Pattern Chart in Mania by Don Nathanson, 5/11/96
  - Affect Pattern Chart by Margaret, 5/14/96
    - Real, not theoretical patients!! by Don Nathanson, 5/15/96
      - OK by Margaret, 5/16/96
        
        Affect and illness by Don Nathanson, 5/16/96
      - Bipolar and Affect-Pattern Chart by Chris Thomas, 1/7/98
      - manic affects by john t, 4/21/98
- Mania by Tra -Ann, 7/6/97
Where messages appear by Margaret Blakely, 5/14/96
- Messages by Gil Levin, 5/15/96
  - Messages by Margaret, 5/15/96
    - Allergies/Asthma and PTSD by Anita F. Redlich, 12/14/96
      - Allergies /Asthma and PTSD by Bob Most, M.D., 10/29/97
  - Refresh browser to see new message by Jim Pfrommer, 5/17/96
    - Refresh browser by Margaret, 5/18/96
incomplete postings by Mary, 5/16/96
- Your Web Browser by Gil Levin, 5/17/96
  - Replace Netcruzer by Jim Pfrommer, 5/17/96
Real patient by Margaret Blakely, 5/18/96
- The real function of innate affect by Don Nathanson, 5/18/96
  - Affect pattern chart by Margaret, 5/19/96
    - Logically, by Don Nathanson, 5/20/96
      - Absolutely! by Margaret, 5/25/96
PTSD by (No author), 5/24/96
- Memory and Shame by Fiona Geiser, 6/2/96
  - Memory and Shame by Jim Pfrommer, 6/3/96
    - Storage and Retrieval by Don Nathanson, 6/4/96
      - Emotion and Learning by Fiona Geiser, 6/22/96
        
        Interference wit h memory by Don Nathanson, 6/22/96
        
        Working Memory in ADHD by Fiona Geiser, 6/23/96
        
        Thanks by Don Nathanson, 6/23/96
      - shame and religion by student UW, 8/22/96
        
        Shame and Religion by Don Nathanson, 8/23/96
        
        Positive Affect and Religion by Ray Schroeder, DMin, 12/3/96
        
        Positive Affect by Don Nathanson, 12/5/96
        Positive Affect and Religion; Some Thoughts by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 12/11/96
        
        2 replies
        
        Shame and Religion by Paul Fitzgerald, 1/23/97
        Epistle to Paul Fitzgerald by Don Nathanson, 1/23/97
        
        1 reply
        
        Healthy Shame in Judaism by Phil Feldman, PhD, 3/3/98
Therapist's using limited expression by linda, 6/18/96
- Therapist's display of affect by Don Nathanson, 6/21/96
Relational theory - complementary? by Suzanne Moran-Johnson, 7/2/96
- Relational Theory---more please. by Don Nathanson, 7/2/96
  - More Relational Theory by Suzanne Moran-Johnson, 7/3/96
- Plea for professional courtesy by Anonymous, 1/11/98
  - Big request by Don Nathanson, 1/11/98
    - Big Resquest, thanks by Anonymous, 1/11/98
Distress vs. anxiety by Don Nathanson, 7/12/96
- Distress/Anxiety by Margaret Blakely, 7/13/96
  - Affect-Based Diagnosis by Don Nathanson, 7/14/96
    - Affect-Based Diagnosis by Margaret Blakely, 7/15/96
      - Getting there . . . by Don Nathanson, 7/15/96
        
        Geography by Margaret Blakely, 7/16/96
- More Distress by Don Nathanson, 7/16/96
- Distress vs Anxiety by Chris Thomas, 1/25/98
  - Differentiating distress-anguish from fear-terror by Don Nathanson, 1/25/98
The Tomkins Institute Annual Colloquium for 1996 by Don Nathanson, 7/20/96
- One click to Colloquium Information by Gil Levin, 7/21/96
- Questions? by Don Nathanson, 9/21/96
Shame, PTSD, Behavioral Problems and Bonding by Sue, 11/9/96
- The Space Between Us Is Shame by c.h., 11/13/96
  - More on PTSD by c.h., 11/14/96
  - pamphlet by Don Nathanson, 11/21/96
    - Work Abuse Book Is a Survival Manual for Working People (and their therapists if they have one) by c.h., 11/22/96
      - note to c.h. by Don Nathanson, 11/30/96
        
        Thanks for the Supportive Words by c.h., 12/2/96
        
        c.h.'s E-mail Address Change for Communication on Work Abuse Issues by c.h., 12/28/96
- Intimacy and Shame by Don Nathanson, 11/21/96
Question on Bi Polar by Neil Tubb, 11/17/96
- Family responsibility by Don Nathanson, 11/21/96
- Manipulative Mom by Ed Riemann LCSW, 11/28/96
Back in business by Don Nathanson, 11/21/96
Me, too! by Lee D. Downs, D.Min., CEAP, CMFT, 12/4/96
- This Was Supposed to Have Been a Response to C.H.'s Book Posting by LDD, 12/4/96
Shame, Guilt and the Psychological Sequelae of Abortion in Male Partners by Michael Simon, 12/15/96
- Response to abortion by Don Nathanson, 12/16/96
  - Men and Abortion by Michael Simon, 2/2/97
- Abortion & PTSD by (No author), 12/16/96
  - Abortion and PTSD by Michael Simon, 2/2/97
Shame and Domestic Violence by Rich Kuyper, 12/22/96
- Shame and Domestic Violence by Don Nathanson, 12/22/96
  - Shame and Domestic Violence by Margaret Blakely, 12/23/96
Lost my post. Advice please. by Rich Kuyper, 12/26/96
- Safe posting by Don Nathanson, 12/26/96
  - More shame and domestic violence by Rich Kuyper, 12/28/96
    - Violent couples by Don Nathanson, 12/29/96
      - Reponse to Violent Couples by Rich Kuyper, 1/1/97
    - And another thing. . . by Don Nathanson, 12/29/96
      - And another thing...Careful Dr. N. by Rich Kuyper, 1/1/97
        
        being real by Don Nathanson, 1/2/97
        
        Response to being real by Rich Kuyper, 1/2/97
Shame and offender therapy by Rich Kuyper, 1/3/97
- Offenders enlightened by Don Nathanson, 1/3/97
- Shame--Intimacy--Attack Other by Vick Kelly, 1/15/97
  - Whiteboard economics and therapist inadequacy by Rich Kuyper, 1/18/97
    - Initial difficulty of Tomkins's concept of Shame by Vick Kelly, 1/19/97
      - One piece at a time... by Rich Kuyper, 1/20/97
        
        Perfect by Don Nathanson, 1/20/97
        Yes, Yes, Yes, And... by Vick Kelly, 1/20/97
        
        Thanks, and...Offender therapy cont... by Rich Kuyper, 1/22/97
Affects as impediments to affects by Rich Kuyper, 1/6/97
- new source vs. impediment by Don Nathanson, 1/6/97
  - Shame and offender therapy II by Rich Kuyper, 1/8/97
    - Shame and offender therapy by Margaret Blakely, 1/8/97
      - DV Offenders, Victims, Sex offenders by Rich Kuyper, 1/9/97
        
        DV Offenders, Victims, etc. by Margaret Blakely, 1/12/97
        
        Offenders, shame awareness etc. by Rich Kuyper, 1/13/97
        
        Shame Awareness by Margaret Blakely, 1/16/97
        
        1 reply
    - Study Groups by Don Nathanson, 1/8/97
EMDR and affect theory by Andrew Stone, 1/27/97
- Tell us more by Don Nathanson, 1/28/97
  - emdr,cont'd by Andrew Stone, 1/28/97
- EMDR Discussion Group by Margaret Blakely, 4/8/97
  - EMDR contacts by Andrew Stone, 7/6/98
- EMDR & Affect Theory by Mary Byrley, 8/10/97
  - Future links between Tomkins Institute and EMDR by Don Nathanson, 8/11/97
Reintegrative shaming praised by Rich Kuyper, 1/30/97
- The Purpose Of This Forum by Don Nathanson, 1/30/97
  - Shame and Systems Thinking in Criminal Justice and Mental Health *Systems* by c.h., 1/30/97
    - Shaming Systems by Don Nathanson, 1/31/97
      - Thank You for the Response on Systems. Work Abuse Book Is at the Printers by c.h., 1/31/97
    - Shame in systems by Rich Kuyper, 2/1/97
      - Yes, Work Stress Is the Euphemism That Propogates Self-Shaming in the Work System by c.h., 2/2/97
        
        Change in systems requires change in language by Don Nathanson, 2/2/97
        
        A systems approach to shame and abuse by Rich Kuyper, 2/3/97
        
        It isn't just shame by Don Nathanson, 2/3/97
        
        A Neat Hope, Yes! And an Absolute Necessity by c.h., 2/3/97
- What about crying? by J.C.D., 1/30/97
  - The Affect Distress-Anguish by Don Nathanson, 1/31/97
- Vacation by Don Nathanson, 2/6/97
- Shame and ADD by Kimberly, 2/7/97
- Development of the human emotional system by K. Dring, 2/24/97
  - Affect and Autism by Don Nathanson, 2/26/97
    - Thank you for reply by K. Dring, 2/27/97
      - Affect Pattern Chart by Don Nathanson, 3/1/97
        
        Affect pattern chart with children by K. Dring, 3/4/97
- Responses to First Learning about Affect Theory by Jim Duffy a.k.a. J.C.D., 2/28/97
  - Response to Responses by Margaret Blakely, 2/28/97
    - Thank You Margaret by Jim Duffy, 2/28/97
  - In This Forum We're Being Influenced to Travel the *Path with Heart* by c.h., 3/1/97
    - Thanks for More Suppport, Chauncey by Jim Duffy, 3/1/97
      - Yes , Chauncey, Tell us more about Bly's Aproach by Rich Kuyper, 3/2/97
    - Robert Bly's Groups for Men Are a Model for a New Work World by c.h., 3/2/97
      - Ordering the Robert Bly Tape and Advising New Dimensions Radio about Don's Book by c.h., 3/3/97
        
        Just Breing Picky by Ed Riemann, 3/3/97
        Ed...Thanks for the Correction...I'm Learning Several Good Things.... by c.h., 3/3/97
  - Creative Stupidity by Don Nathanson, 3/1/97
    - Very Interesting, Don. by Jim Duffy, 3/2/97
  - More on Initial Responses to Affect Theory by Vick Kelly, 3/1/97
    - I Thought There Was Something Like That by Jim Duffy, 3/2/97
    - Rock and a Hard Place by Ed Riemann LCSW, 3/3/97
      - Intellect and Affect by Vick Kelly, 3/7/97
        
        Cognition and Human Emotion by Ed Riemann, 3/8/97
        
        Independence of affect and cognition by Don Nathanson, 3/8/97
        
        Projection and Interpretation by Ed Riemann, 3/9/97
        
        Read the book by Don Nathanson, 3/10/97
        
        2 replies
    - Is *Intellectualizing* a Script that is Enforced Normatively on Mental Health Professionals? by c.h., 3/7/97
      - Intellectualizing vs Being Intellectual by Ed Riemann, 3/8/97
        
        A Question for Ed by Vick Kelly, 3/9/97
        
        Motivation/Reaction Formation by Ed Riemann, 3/9/97
        
        Next Question(s) by Vick Kelly, 3/10/97
        
        To Vick by Ed Riemann, 3/11/97
        
        1 reply
        
        Transcendence of the Cognitive/Affective *Dichotomy* by Jonathan Grindlinger, 4/15/97
        
        Cognitive/Affective Continuum by Ed Riemann, 4/17/97
        
        Exactly by Jonathan Grindlinger, 4/17/97
        
        Affective Emergence by Ed Riemann, 4/20/97
        
        1 reply
      - Too Sweeping a Question by Vick Kelly, 3/9/97
        
        Tomkins' Four Volumes on Order! Thank You for Your Encouragement! by c.h., 3/14/97
        
        OXYGEN for READERS OF TOMKINS by Vick Kelly, 3/16/97
        
        Am I Being Followed? by Jeff Elison, 1/29/99
  - The Question Is How Tomkins' *Scripts* Apply to Systems by c.h., 3/9/97
    - Change Agents? by Ed Riemann, 3/10/97
      - We Have a Healthy Difference about Clinicians as Change Agents...and with Respect! by c.h., 3/14/97
        
        Healthy Difference by Margaret Blakely, 3/15/97
        Ditto to Margaret's Comment by Jim Duffy, 3/15/97
        Clinical vs Advocacy by Ed Riemann, 3/19/97
        
        Strong Link...and How Shame Enters into the Clinical vs Advocacy Question by c.h., 3/20/97
        
        Group Advocacy vs Client Advocacy by Ed Riemann, 3/22/97
      - Aren't We More Alike Than Different? by c.h., 3/18/97
  - San Francisco Postal Workers' Protest Shaming (Scripts and Systems--Learning about Affect Theory) by c.h., 3/14/97
    - Postal Workers Scripts/Systems Not Unlike Hazing Mental Health Interns by c.h., 3/14/97
      - Glad You're Curious, Too, C.H. by Jim Duffy, 3/15/97
        
        Einstein, Tomkins, Darwin and *Hiding Out*....... by c.h., 3/15/97
      - Narcissism, Shame, and the Taboo on Neediness Could Be Understood When the Mental Health Profession Understands Sympathy by Jim Duffy, 3/20/97
        
        Sympathy unmasked by Don Nathanson, 3/21/97
        
        What is Sympathy? Parts I, II, III, and IV by Jim Duffy, 3/21/97
        
        Great Dialogue...a small systems thought...Please Continue! by c.h., 3/21/97
        
        Chauncey, I Appreciate Your Appreciation by Jim Duffy, 3/22/97
        
        Sympathy for the Devil by Rich Kuyper, 3/22/97
        
        You Are The Expert on Therapy, Rich. I Will Ponder Theories with You by Jim Duffy, 3/22/97
        
        2 replies
        
        ....and all the siners...Saints by Ed Riemann LCSW, 3/23/97
        
        1 reply
        
        Caring? Love? Sympathy? by Don Nathanson, 3/22/97
        
        How Does Affect Theory Explain the Care in a Caring Person? by Jim Duffy, 3/22/97
        
        Sympathy, Empathy, etc. by Margaret Blakely, 3/23/97
        
        Thanks For Your Thoughtful Input, Margaret by Jim Duffy, 3/23/97
        Margaret - Hanging out as close to the center of the compass of shame as possible. by Steve Shmurak, 10/26/97
        
        1 reply
        
        Humor...Margaret a *Lightweight*, Jim Washes Away *Sympathy*; What's Happening to Rich? by c.h., 3/23/97
        Comment by Rich Kuyper, 3/25/97
        
        Faith, Hope, Love, and Science Sustain Us Through a Shame Darkened March of History by Jim Duffy, 3/27/97
        
        Men and Shame....Enormous Issue Now Faced Directly by Jim! Thank you! by c.h., 3/28/97
        
        Chauncey, I Love the Work You Do by Jim Duffy, 3/28/97
        Enormous issue by Margaret Blakely, 3/28/97
        Oil and Water by Ed Riemann, 3/30/97
        
        Men and shame by Margaret Blakely, 3/28/97
        
        I Know What You Mean, Margaret by Jim Duffy, 3/29/97
        
        1 reply
        
        What Can Women Do about Men's Needing to Adapt to (Shaming) Systems? by c.h., 3/29/97
        
        Ed...I'm Laughing... by c.h., 3/31/97
        
        How You Play the Game by Ed Riemann, 3/31/97
        
        Beggars Banquet by Ed Riemann, 3/30/97
- Thoughts and Questions about Backed-up Affects by Jim Duffy, 3/9/97
  - One Guideline by Jim Duffy, 10/27/97
- Both sympathy and empathy are scripts by Don Nathanson, 3/23/97
  - Looking Forward to Don's Script Theory Paper by c.h., 3/23/97
  - Paper Has Been Delivered Here by Gil Levin, 3/24/97
  - Crime and Nourishment by Rich Kuyper, 3/27/97
    - Rich...Inspiring...On the Path with Heart by c.h., 3/27/97
    - Crime and Remorse by Ed Riemann, 3/30/97
      - Crime and Therapy by Rich Kuyper, 4/4/97
        
        Crime and Injury by Ed Riemann, 4/5/97
        Shame, in the prison settings by Mell Williams, Jr., 8/9/97
        (No title) by (No author), 6/12/98
    - Rich, Passing Along a Book Reference I Discovered by Jim Duffy, 4/5/97
      - Jim, Thanks for Reference! by Rich Kuyper, 4/7/97
  - Both sympathy and empathy are scripts by Margaret, 3/29/97
    - Quick, Write that down! by Vick Kelly, 3/29/97
      - Write this down! by Margaret, 3/29/97
- Jim Duffy's Home Page by Don Nathanson, 3/29/97
- California Conference Presentation on Shame in the Workplace, and NOW Takes on Abusive Work! by c.h., 4/12/97
- Quiz Time by Jim Duffy, 4/29/97
  - The Answer to: What is Perhaps the Deepest Sickness of the Human Spirit? by Jim Duffy, 5/7/97
    - Post-Quiz Thought by Vick Kelly, 5/7/97
      - Neat Post-Quiz Thought! by Jim Duffy, 5/8/97
        
        Correcting a Blunder by Jim Duffy, 5/8/97
        Shame without Distress-Anguish by Vick Kelly, 5/12/97
        
        Thank You, Vick, for a Really Clarifying Reply by Jim Duffy, 5/13/97
- Here's Wishing I Can Proffer A Sympathetic Bit by Jim Duffy, 4/30/97
  - Anger Scripts by Don Nathanson, 4/30/97
    - Don, Lots to Think About--Thank You by Jim Duffy, 4/30/97
  - Anger as the Tip of a Pyramid by Vick Kelly, 4/30/97
    - Marvelously Interesting and Useful Model by Jim Duffy, 4/30/97
- Subcortical relief by Nils Petter Lauvrak, 5/5/97
  - Welcome by Don Nathanson, 5/6/97
    - A Word of Thanks to Don Nathanson by Michael Simon, 5/6/97
      - Feels good by Don Nathanson, 5/7/97
        
        Response to Don by Michael Simon, 5/7/97
        
        Men/Woman and True Abortion by Ed Riemann MSW LCSW, 5/8/97
        90210 by Don Nathanson, 5/8/97
        
        Men and Abortion, even in Beverly Hills by Michael Simon, 5/10/97
- Projection in Affect Theory by Jim Duffy, 5/9/97
- Stimulation Below Optimal Levels by Jim Duffy, 5/13/97
  - Boredom, distress, and the clarinet by Don Nathanson, 5/13/97
    - Great Story, Great Explanation! by Jim Duffy, 5/13/97
- A Binding Burden of Ever-Worsening Affect by Jim Duffy, 5/19/97
  - Scripts for Wealth Addiction by Don Nathanson, 5/27/97
    - A Nice Addition to Your Book's Observation by Jim Duffy, 5/27/97
- Greetings from Australia by Laurel Downey ljd@popa.melbpc.org.au, 5/26/97
- Shame and empathy & 'cold' violence by Laurel Downey, 6/4/97
  - Good Questions by Jim Duffy, 6/4/97
  - Talk about a global village! by Don Nathanson, 6/4/97
- Questions about firmware: (how) does therapy produce changes in firmware? by Suzy Rouleau, MA, 6/16/97
  - Where and why therapy works by Don Nathanson, 6/19/97
- Checking in. More on affect being multideterminate. by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 7/12/97
  - Nesting by Don Nathanson, 7/14/97
- Roadblocks in Therapy by Don Nathanson, 7/20/97
  - Duh in a Group by Gil Levin, 7/28/97
  - Impasses, Roadblocks and Other Opportunities for Learning by Ellen Dornelas, 7/30/97
    - Impasses as Learning Opportunities by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 7/31/97
- La Femme Nikita by Don Nathanson, 8/5/97
  - La Femme Nikita & Intimacy by Steve Moncher, MS, LPC, 8/8/97
- Shame and Dependence by Dorothy Chance, 8/6/97
  - Difficult Families and Caregiving: Attack-Other? by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 8/7/97
    - Thanks by Dorothy Chance, 8/7/97
    - Additional Factors by Dorothy Chance, 8/10/97
      - Syndrome in difficult family members in institutional settings? by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 8/11/97
        
        More Later by Dorothy Chance, 8/11/97
      - Shame in Institutional Settings by Don Nathanson, 8/11/97
        
        Taking Issue by Dorothy Chance, 8/11/97
        
        Better name needed by Don Nathanson, 8/12/97
        
        A Rose by any other name by Dorothy Chance, 8/12/97
        
        And we wonder why they come back for more by Mell Williams, Jr., 8/18/97
        
        Understanding the relevance of shame for rehabilitation by Don Nathanson, 8/20/97
        
        Shame in corrections by Mell Williams, Jr., 8/20/97
        
        See if this works by Jim Duffy, 8/20/97
        
        1 reply
- Amen by Pat Doherty, 8/21/97
- Dissociative Disorders by Bill Conway, 9/3/97
  - Some Terms Defined by Don Nathanson, 9/6/97
    - Response Some Terms Defined by B. Lynch, 1/11/98
      - On Intent by Don Nathanson, 1/11/98
      - Terms defined, response by B. Lynch, 1/11/98
- Bipolar Teenager? by Mireille Deschenes, 9/20/97
  - Ways of treating severe depression by Don Nathanson, 9/20/97
    - Thank you Don by Mireille Deschenes, 9/23/97
      - Good for you, Mireille! by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 9/24/97
- Surprise-Startle, The Macho Script and Nothing by Jim Duffy, 10/12/97
  - Contempt in the Macho Script by Don Nathanson, 10/15/97
    - I'm Glad You Mentioned That by Jim Duffy, 10/15/97
- child development/shame by Vicki Whelan, 10/12/97
- Shame, Sex, and Anthropology Thread by Vick Kelly, 10/29/97
  - Alex Bruzzone's Initial Post by Alex Bruzzone, 10/30/97
  - Bob Most's Response by Bob Most, 10/30/97
  - Don Nathanson's Response by Don Nathanson, 10/30/97
  - Joe Dubey's Response by Joe Dubey, 10/30/97
  - Mel Hill's Response by Mel Hill, 10/30/97
- Shame, Sex, and Anthropology Thread--New Responses by Vick Kelly, 10/29/97
  - Sexture and Similar Cultures by F. Daniel Duffy, M.D., 11/10/97
- Accident proneness & depression by DWH, 11/11/97
  - 'Depression' and accident-prone behavior by Don Nathanson, 11/16/97
- Addiction to Chemical Substances by Steve Colameco, MD, 11/16/97
  - Scripts for Addiction by Don Nathanson, 12/1/97
    - is there also a 'celebration' script? by Martha Frisoli Gibson, 12/1/97
      - Celebrations and Libations by Don Nathanson, 12/2/97
    - (No title) by (No author), 1/11/98
      - Why addiction is different by Don Nathanson, 1/11/98
- Curious about a Tomkins Passage on Shame by Jim Duffy, 12/6/97
  - Impediments by Don Nathanson, 12/7/97
- bibliography on Affect theory by rando, 12/9/97
  - Bibliography and Fidelity to the Subject Matter by Jim Duffy, 12/9/97
    - Erratum: Closing Koch's Quote by Jim Duffy, 12/10/97
- Recovery from Shame by Eli Frankstein, 12/24/97
  - Recovery from Shame. by Eli Frankenstein, 12/24/97
- Recovery from Shame by Ike, 12/25/97
  - SSRI medications by Steve Colameco, 12/29/97
    - Medication within therapy by Don Nathanson, 12/30/97
      - Thanks, Don! by Steve , 12/30/97
- Happy New Year! by Don Nathanson, 12/31/97
  - mid life career changes by sgrant, 1/1/98
    - On being made suddenly insignificant by Don Nathanson, 1/2/98
      - Attachment Abusers by Chris Thomas, 1/10/98
        
        I Think So by Jim Duffy, 1/10/98
- Need referral by Anonymous, 1/11/98
  - Referral by Don Nathanson, 1/11/98
- The Silvan S. Tomkins Institute Website by Don Nathanson, 1/24/98
- Vacation by Don Nathanson, 2/4/98
- shame and gay/lesbian research by Marty M, 2/4/98
  - Shame and gay/lesbian issues by Sue Deppe,MD, Burlington, VT, 2/7/98
- Shame and BPD by Bill Adams, 2/28/98
  - A reference: by Don Nathanson, 3/2/98
- PTSD and children by Leigh, 3/1/98
  - On overwhelming doses of affect by Don Nathanson, 3/3/98
    - A good note by leigh, 3/4/98
- Shame & Guilt in DSM-IV by Perry (psill@cross-brain.com), 3/5/98
  - Shame in DSM-IV by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 3/6/98
- A Wish to Share by D.William, Ph.D., 3/11/98
  - Also A Wish To Share by Steven H. Shmurak, 3/13/98
  - Healthy Skepticism by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 3/13/98
  - Some Other Concerns...Then onto more Constructive Comments!! by Doug William, Ph.D., 3/14/98
    - More on Langs, please by Don Nathanson, 3/16/98
      - The Essence of Langs--------I hope! by Doug William, 3/17/98
        
        A Bit More on Langs by Doug William, 3/17/98
    - Direct Supervision... by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 3/16/98
  - Links beween Langs and affect/script theory by Don Nathanson, 3/22/98
- Core of the Central Assembly Located!!! by Don Nathanson, 3/26/98
  - Corpus Striatum to Brainstem by Don Nathanson, 4/4/98
- Affect in Artificial Intelligence by David Kewley, 3/28/98
  - Artificial Stupidity by Don Nathanson, 3/28/98
    - Building a model of innate affect by David Kewley, 3/28/98
      - Stimulus Density by Don Nathanson, 3/28/98
        
        References? by David Kewley, 3/29/98
        
        Further connections by Don Nathanson, 3/29/98
      - Late to this discussion but.. by mark@emotivate.com, 2/8/99
- I Will Be Teaching A Course on Psychotherapy This Summer by Don Nathanson, 4/4/98
- A Few Short Questions? by Laurel Downey ljd@melbpc.org.au, 4/4/98
  - Tomkinsian Post-Postmodernism by Jim Duffy, 4/4/98
- Prototypical male shame situations by Heidi L. Eyre, 4/25/98
  - (No title) by Perry <NOT a professional>, 5/1/98
  - More on Prototypical Male Shame by Jim Pfrommer, 5/14/98
    - macho aka machismo by Mell Williams, Jr., MA, CAAP-2, 5/18/98
- Affect Theory and Homophobia by John R. Crary, 5/27/98
  - Tell me more by Don Nathanson, 5/28/98
    - Shame in the Cybernetic Fold by John R. Crary, 6/9/98
  - Why the attack mode? by Sharon Willoughby, 6/1/98
    - Serious questions by Don Nathanson, 6/2/98
  - Inventing Fallacy--Parts I and II by Jim Duffy, 6/7/98
- The Holy Spirit and Affect Theory by Sharon Willoughby, 6/4/98
  - Affect within religious experience by Don Nathanson, 6/7/98
    - More questions by Sharon Willoughby, 6/8/98
  - Affect in Pentecostal Worship by David McShane, 6/10/98
    - David, part of your post got lost by Sharon Willoughby, 6/12/98
  - Pentecostal Worship by David W.McShane, 6/20/98
    - Incomplete message above by Dave McShane, 6/21/98
      - David, would you e-mail me? by Sharon, 6/22/98
  - PENTECOSTAL SPIRIT by Sharon Willoughby for David McShane, 6/29/98
  - Thank You for Your Questions by Chuck Yopst, 7/21/98
- Affect- thought type connections by DWH, 6/19/98
  - Affect is an abstract response by Don Nathanson, 6/19/98
    - Empirical foundation of affect theory by MSc Katja Claesson, Uppsala University, Sweden, 10/16/98
      - Exploring Affect by Jim Duffy, 10/21/98
- *Familiarity Breeds Contempt* and Other Things by Chuck Yopst, 7/4/98
- Interaffectivity? by John Falkenberg, 7/7/98
  - references by Don Nathanson, 7/7/98
- Dance/Movement Therapy for Don Nathanson :-) by Chuck Yopst, 7/14/98
  - Joan Chodorow by Don Nathanson, 7/19/98
- Dance/Movement Therapy for Don Nathanson :-) by Chuck Yopst, 7/14/98
- Script conflict by BW, 7/17/98
  - Dueling Scripts by Don Nathanson, 7/19/98
- *19 Principles* by S. S. Tomkins by transcription per Chuck Yopst, 7/19/98
- The 1998 Colloquium of the Tomkins Institute by Don Nathanson, 8/6/98
- dismell/disgust by DWH, 8/19/98
  - Drive auxiliary affects by Dave McShane, 10/2/98
    - Still don't understand trigger by DWH, 10/3/98
      - The shift to analogue by Don Nathanson, 10/3/98
- Shame about shame by Don Nathanson, 9/27/98
- Why aren't our leaders in psychotherapy? by Mike Capuzzo, 9/28/98
- Object Relations Theory Vs. Shame and Affect Theory by Richard Parsons, 10/24/98
  - Training in Affect and Script Theory by Sue Deppe, MD, Burlington, VT, 10/30/98
    - Thank You by Richard Parsons, 10/31/98
      - Learning Affect Theory by Dave McShane, 11/26/98
      - Study Groups by Don Nathanson, 11/26/98
- Object Relations Theory Vs. Shame and Affect Theory by Richard Parsons, 10/24/98
- Shame about shame by Dale Freundlich, CSW, 11/4/98
  - It makes sense, doesn't it? by Don Nathanson, 11/4/98
    - remember 1994 by bob guzzardi, 11/29/98
    - a normative-conservative's personal reflection by bob guzzardi, 11/29/98
- Re: Monicagate, Shame, and Affect Theory by Barry McKenna, 11/12/98
- How would you handle this situation? by Don Nathanson, 11/29/98
  - Psychology of Sport by Steven H. Shmurak, Ph.D., 11/28/98
    - Flag on the field! by Don Nathanson, 11/29/98
  - (No title) by Rich Kuyper, 11/30/98
    - What would Kubiak do first? by Don Nathanson, 12/2/98
      - Earn respect by giving it. by Rich Kuyper, 12/6/98
  - Da Bulls by B. Lynch, 12/19/98
- Flag on the Field by Martha, 11/29/98
- Online Articles on Affect Theory by Leonard Holmes, 12/1/98
- Mass Shame and Affect VS Positive Reinforcement by RoseMary Brinkman MSW, 12/8/98
  - Positive reinforcement versus ticket sales by Don Nathanson, 12/13/98
    - What Does it Take to Bring About Change? by Patricia A. Doherty, 12/14/98
      - Mirror, Mirror on the Wall by Doug W., 12/15/98
        
        Well, maybe there is a different way by Don Nathanson, 12/15/98
        
        Gratitude by Patricia A. Doherty, 12/16/98
    - Positve Reinforcement vs ticket sales by Roy Clymer, 12/23/98
- Inevitability of shame by Roy Clymer, 12/23/98
  - PHYSIOLOGY IS INEVITABLE by B. LYNCH, 12/23/98
    - Handling Rejection by Steve Shmurak, 12/24/98
      - Handling shame, not rejection by Roy Clymer, 12/29/98
    - Inevitability of shame by Roy Clymer, 12/29/98
      - The affects help us know reality by Don Nathanson, 1/2/99
      - Does disappointment=shame? by Jeff Elison, 3/25/99
- Script Question to Mssrs. Nathanson and Kelly by Chuck Yopst, S.S.T.I. Member, 1/4/99
  - Changing Scripts: the poorly impeded interest-excitment version by Jonathan L. Grindlinger, M.D., 1/7/99
    - The importance of basic affects by Brian Lynch, 1/9/99
    - Shall We Dance, Among the Affects by Chuck Yopst, D.Min., D.T.R., 1/9/99
    - Affects, then on to Scripts by Vick Kelly, 1/10/99
- When shame is the rule... by Lia Ades, 2/6/99
  - An idea at your request by Jonathan Grindlinger, M.D., 2/7/99
    - Thanks for your answer! by Lia Ades, 2/18/99
- Shame, Affect Theory & Restorative Justice by K Stanway, 2/17/99
  - Affect and Restorative Justice by Don Nathanson, 3/1/99
- An observation about emotion in the Obsessive-Compulsive style of life by Don Nathanson, 4/3/99

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