Lots of good stuff in the previous thread. We're all trying to explain experiences and attitudes that have tremendous meaning for us, that in many cases are the defining themes of our personalities. In the next day or so I will try to find and post an electronic version of a paper on scripts and script theory I wrote for the SSTI Bulletin. Sympathy (both Jim's definition and mine) is a script, just as is altruism. It is the peculiar combination of learned and innate mechanisms that makes our field so complex and fascinating. Script theory allows some understanding of it and shows why some parts of the personality are easy to change and some are quite refractory.