Hi, I have posted twice under the subject heading "shame and interpersonal violence" to find that both times the postings were cut off part way through. I am using NETCOM's Netcruiser to access BOL and this forum. When I preview the message it appears in its entirety, but somehow in the mysterious world of the internet the whole message has not appeared on the forum. I'd welcome any ideas, suggestions, etc. that anyone has that might help me address this (getting to be shameful) problem. Thanks. Mary