my son has adhd severly, my husband and i are at our witts end we feel that no matter what we do his behavor is getting much worse, he's becoming a kleptomaniac and so defiant we need help. my son was born with this and he is now nine years old for a while we thought we had a grip on the situation but now i feel that i'm loosing him. can any one help or give me any advice? i'm open to anything at this point.