Our forum here is devoted to discussions about the psychology of cyberspace, but I understand how this difficult situation is driving you to look for help wherever you think you might find it. It sounds like you need to find a mental health professional who is familiar with ADHD. Look in the phone book. Look on Mental Health Net for information. Talk to friends, relatives, your family doctor. Get recommendations for a psychologist or psychiatrist. Visit a few to see which one might be most helpful for you and your son..... Good luck! I hope things work out OK.