I am a emotionally/mentally healthy heterosexual saavy woman from NYC without the smalltown, usa mentality. People like you frighten me so much. For you to think that gay people are in it for the sex based on what their personals say vs. what the hetero personals say is the most illiterate statement I have heard in awhile. Did it ever occur to you that gays are more straight forward than the heterosexual personals? Less inhibited-straight to the point. Alot of these so called straight males just go about it in a more sneaky, back-door way. Read between the lines and get educated before you make an across-the-board statement like that. By the way, try calling a straight-oriented phone line and pretend you are a transexual or even a gay male who just wants to do oral on these so-called "straight males who want a long term relationship" and see how many of them will take you up on it. Straight males are more secretive and phony. I feel sorry for your families and any children you guys might have with such illiterate, disgusting unresearched and baseless statements.