I am sorry for the delay in response. I was outside the country.
Referrals are available through the EMDR Institute at 831/372-3900 or inst@emdr.com. They will send you a list of all Level II trained clinicians in your area. You would then need to interview them to find one knowledgable in DID.
I urge you to discuss your concerns with your present therapist. Perhaps there is a communication problem.
Best regards.