Re:Controling behavior and marital conflict

In my limited experience, some men want to be distracted, maybe directed but not controlled. Well, I guess some do want to be controlled so they can rebel and do that whole thing.
But, thats something else again.
You might try giving up the need to control how he should think or feel and/or live his life, not just abdicate your power over the mundane things that nobody really wants to do anyway.
Oh, how to do this?
Well, I suggest finding something that delights you so much you forget about controlling anything or anyone. And also to fully recognize and accept the worth of an uncontrolled, spontaneous life.

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