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Re: Counseling Children with Behavior Disorder
· 11/13/00 at 9:06 ET
MY DAUGHTER IS 13. WHEN SHE WAS 6, THE PEOPLE IN HEADSTART SCHOOL SAID THEY THOUGHT SHE MIGHT BE ADHD. I TOOK HER TO A CHILDRENS CLINIC IN OKLAHOMA CITH AND THEY SAID YES SHE DID. AFTER ABOUT 4 YEARS OF RITALIN, SHE WANTED OFF. SHE SAID SHE FELT VERY BAD AND HAD BAD THOUGHTS WHILE SHE WAS ON IT. I DID WEAN HER OFF AND SHE SEEMED SO MUCH HAPPIER. I NOTICED THAT SHE WASN'T SO MUCH HYPER BUT VERY DISRESPECTFUL TO ME AND WITHDRAWN FROM SOCIETY. THERE ARE REASONS WHY THE WITHDRAW THAT I CAN PINPOINT. NOW THE DOCTORS AND COUNCLERS SAY SHE IS OPPISIONAL DEFYENT[MISSPELLED]. SHE DOESN'T DRINK, DO DRUGS OR RUN THE STREETS, IN FACT SHE NEVER LEAVES THE HOUSE UNLESS IT'S WITH ME. SHE HAS NO FRIENDS EXCEPT A COUPLE OF GIRLS IN SCHOOL. SHE DOESN'T GO PLACES WITH THEM AND HARDLY COMMUNICATES WITH THEM OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL. SHE HAS FOUND A WAY OF HAVING FRIENDS WITH OUT BEING WITH THEM. [INTERNET]
SHE IS THE NASTIEST HUMAN ALIVE, NOT IN APPERANCE BUT OTHERWISE. I CAN'T INVITE PEOPLE IN MY HOUSE BECAUSE IT'S SO FILTHY AND I CAN'T PHYSICALLY, OR EMONITIONALY KEEP UP WITH HER ANY MORE. SHE HAS JUST STARTED SHOWING A LITTLE SIGN OF LOVE FOR ME NOW AND THEN.SHE IS VERY DEMANDING AND UN-NATURLY LAZY. THERE IS NO WAY OF PUNISHING HER, AND SHE OVER POWERS ME MENTALLY. SHE IS FAILING EVERY CLASS IN SCHOOL MAINLY BECAUSE SHE REFUSES TO DO HOMEWORK, LIES ABOUT HAVING ANY AND DOESN'T WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL. I'VE HAD HER IN 5 DIFFERENT BEHAVIORAL SCHOOLS OR COUNCELING. THEY NEVER HELP. SHE IS USALLY SWEET TO MOST PEOPLE, MY FAMILY, MOTHER AND TWO OLDER DAUGHTERS HATE THE WAY SHE TREATS ME AND SHE IS VERY JELOUS OF MY GRAND KIDS. I COULD GO ON AND ON THERE IS MORE BUT I DON'T KNOW IF YOU CAN OR WILL HELP.
SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE WALKING OUT. I'M 54 AND USUALLY A VERY STRONG PERSON. NOT NOW. I HAVE ALSO BEEN IN COUNCELING. I'M SORRY FOR MY SPELLING, I'M THE WORLDS WORSE SPELLER. THANK YOU
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