I'm glad the experience has been a positive one for you, Merrie. Conflict in ANY group is an important stage in its development. Grappling with and resolving conflicts leads to a more cohesive, more mature, more accepting group. Check out http://www1.rider.edu/~suler/psycyber/lifelist.html
Anyone else have some ideas or stories to relate concerning their experiences with the pros and cons of online communities?