Me Neither... I'd like to change that

• Not interested in sex by Female , 3/6/99
  
  

I also seem to have lost interest in sex. I used to love to engage in foreplay, often massaging my partner with oils rythmically to some sort of appropriate music (Yanni, Kitaro, Enya), by candlelight. Now I find myself utterly bored during these experiences. When we do engage in this, my partner is enjoying the experience, and I am silently wondering, "why do people go through all this?". I am much happier to just snuggle and cuddle without any sense that I have to do anything more. ANd yet, I miss the feelings I had when sex was exciting and worth the effort. Now I am having troubles deciding whether I want to re-train myself to enjoy sex, or whether I am better off just letting it go. It's very confusing. And to make matters worse, I'm an NLP practitioner and Ericksonian Hypnotist, so I feel that I should be able to find my way out of this better... Physically, everything functions just fine (but often there is no interest, and if there's no interest, there's no erectile action). I'd sure like some online assistance here...

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