Yes, I'd noted the irony on multiple occasions. :) There are shortcuts to integration, but they hurt. I think the therapist and I both thought we had screened adequately for problems. (By that I mean we both have a very good understanding of your DD article, among other things.) We were doing rdi stuff, not the standard protocol. In my case, the rdi itself, and mode of bls used -- not the Grand tapes, which I hadn't informed my therapist I had -- probably touched on too many issues. The therapist couldn't address what I would not reveal, and I was unable to reveal what concerned me until the emdr shoved it so close to my face that I had to accept it's veracity. It's easy to look back and say how it "should" have happened... but realizing the "should" has been part of the process of dealing with the negative fallout. If that makes sense. My therapist says I throw curve balls: Beware of clients who throw curveballs! But blame the client, not the emdr... that's what I wanted to say.
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