I feel a bit funny with this notion of "spamming", and hope that this response to your invitation is not construed thusly. This aside, Cyber Beds Don't Squeak is my own research conducted over 4 year period on the dynamics that give rise to "cyber love" and concludes with a personal journey of my own cyber love that lead to real-life marriage. Some may find it informative and insightful, though informal and written for layperson.