Several months ago my husband moved from exploring porn newsgroups to sexually explicit chat rooms. He tells me that he was alone once with a female dominatrix and got into a discussion with her about doms and subs. He told her he thought he could do it - as a pseudofemale - as well as she could. And from then on he was known as a female. After many arguments he agreed to stop frequenting the room, but kept the female persona. It really bothers me as he has a few times worn women's underwear and I see this behavior as a sort of cyber crossdressing.