Love and loving

• So one day Erickson asks me by Don Nathanson, 10/15/97
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    • Bonner's and the Putneys' Love by Stephen Lankton, 11/12/97
      
      

One of the things that struck me (ow!) when reading your message was that I read love as a verb, not a thing. I treat it as a process, an ongoing action. Such a simple change in opinion can be a powerful reframe. 'Love' results from the action of taking pleasure from another's pleasure, and is the action that generates such happiness.

Robin

• I agree, Robin. by Jeffrey K. Zeig, Ph.D., 4/12/98
• Well put by Stephen Lankton, 4/13/98