Again it comes down to this, with every choice there are consequences. Being sexually active with multiple partners has it's price to pay. We do have to supress are urges in today's sosciety. If we don't, we would have anarchy or something worse. We can't move back to the days when we hung from the trees, we live in a day and age were technology rules. We can't afford to have a ape sit at the controls of a nuclear missile.