more transference

Emerging,
"I need to learn how to trust and get close to someone else."

If you are unable to find a therapist who can satisfy this need it may be possible to find others who can help you. To do this you could make a list of as many possible interests that you think worth following. Arrange your list into short/long term, possible immediately, can do later & so on. You may have a fascination for ballroom dancing & enrol there. The people you meet in dancing class, the instructors & their families may eventually become important to you. Perhaps you already already relationships that you feel comfortable with. Talking about loving & being loved is not usually verbalised. Actions speak louder than words.

I love our dog. My wife love our dog too. Our kids love our dog & when the kids ring home they usually ask how Mickey is & say to give him a hug from me. Many people find animals are the best friends of all.

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