Overeating may have other "symbolic" value besides "replacing an emotional emptiness." The "comfort" factor may be primary in many cases, but I can recall a case where eating an abundance of sweets represented a compensation for the bitterness of life that was deeply felt. In another case, a child who was eating massive amounts of food, believed that it would help him grow up faster and catch up in size with his older brother. I would always look for the individual, unique root of an unusual eating habit.
Developing a "concrete sense of self" and an "acceptance of self" is indeed a prerequisite to increasing the feeling of community. In order to achieve this, the push of the inferiority feeling and the pull of the fictional final goal must be progressively diminished. A genuine sense of self is discovered after the artificial role, dictated by the style of life and fictional goal (designed to relieve a dreaded fear of inferiority) is dissolved.
An examination of the stages of Classical Adlerian psychotherapy can clarify the sequence of strategies that lead up to the development of a feeling of community.
PHASES | STAGE NO. | STAGE | TASKS TO BE ACCOMPLISHED |
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Support | 1 | Empathy & Relationship | Providing warmth, empathy, and acceptance. Generating hope, reassurance, and encouragement. Establishing a cooperative working relationship. |
2 | Information | Unstructured gathering of relevant information:
Eliciting details of presenting problem & life tasks. Exploring early childhood influences and memories. |
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Encouragement | 3 | Clarification | Clarifying vague thinking with Socratic questioning.
Evaluating consequences of ideas and actions. Correcting mistaken ideas about self and others. |
4 | Encouragement | Helping generate alternatives.
Stimulating movement in a new direction, away from life style. Clarifying new feelings about effort and results. |
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Insight | 5 | Interpretation - Recognition | Interpreting inferiority feelings & goal of superiority.
Identifying what has been avoided. Integrating birth order, recollections, dreams, & daydreams. |
6 | Knowing | Client fully aware of life style without help.
Individual knows and accepts what needs to be changed. In spite of insight, client may feel emotionally blocked. |
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Change | 7 | Emotional Breakthrough - Missing Experience | When needed, promoting an emotional breakthrough.
Offering corrective or missing developmental experiences. Creative use of role-playing, guided imagery, and narration. |
8 | Doing Differently | Converting insight into new attitude--breaking old patterns.
Fostering experiments, concrete steps based on abstract ideas. Making the unproductive feel unpleasant. |
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9 | Reinforcement | Encouraging all new movements toward significant change.
Affirming positive results and feelings. Evaluating progress and new courage. |
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Challenge | 10 | Social Interest | Using client's better feeling of self to promote more cooperation.
Extending feeling of equality, cooperation and empathy to others. Giving one's all, 100% in relationships and work--taking risks. |
11 | Goal Redirection | Challenging client to let go of self and old fictional goal.
Dissolving the old style of life--finding a new direction. Opening a new psychological horizon--living by new values. |
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12 | Support & Launching | Inspiring client to love the struggle and prefer the unfamiliar.
Strengthening the feeling of connectedness & desire to share. Promoting a path of continual growth for self and others. |
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Meta-Therapy | - | Post-Therapeutic Dialogue | A philosophical and/or spiritual discussion of values, the meaning of ones' life, and the committment to a mission. |
Classical Adlerian psychotherapy is characterized by a diplomatic, warm, empathic, and Socratic style of treatment. This climate embodies the qualities of respect and equality necessary for building a trusting, cooperative relationship. A full psychotherapy can be envisioned as a progression though twelve stages, however, these stages should be considered as teaching guidelines and should not be interpreted as a systematic procedure. Psychotherapy is an art that must be practiced creatively. The best therapeutic strategy is frequently a unique invention for the individual client.
For more detailed information about the process of psychotherapy, read Classical Adlerian Theory and Practice at http://www.themall.net/~adler/theoprac.htm .
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